Veteran actor Richard Mofe-Damijo, RMD has written on the only true source of happiness and it is not having the perfect shape, good marriage, best cars and houses, neither having a boob lift.
In his own opinion, the actor believes that only true source of happiness is when an individual lives their life without seeking validation from any other person.
Having been there and done that, I can tell you for free that weight loss, weight gain, butt enlargement, boob lift, marriage, buying/building your own house, having kids, wearing expensive clothes and shoes CANNOT make you truly happy.
Mostly, the things we do to show others we are beautiful, made, tough and/or connected are things that magnify our insecurities. A man who is secure in himself has no urge to flaunt wealth, I’m yet to see Alh. Dangote post a picture of his “machines” or of him “chilling in his private jet”.
A woman who is secure in her looks has no urge to go under the knife for enhancement, think Michelle Obama. True happiness comes from knowing who you are (self discovery) and loving yourself, “even though…”
Anyone who can live without caring about the validation of others is the one who has found true happiness.