“No second wife loves her husband genuinely, no side chick loves her man sincerely” — Actor Awesome Chidiebere
Nollywood actor Awesome Chidiebere has declared that no woman who becomes a second wife or a side chick can genuinely and sincerely love a man who already has another woman.
According to him, once a woman discovers that a man is already married or in a relationship, she naturally takes a step back because women do not like to share.
He argued that whatever feelings she may have for the man can eventually become influenced by what she stands to gain from the relationship, such as money, power, influence or other benefits.
Awesome Chidiebere said the first wife is more likely to have the man’s genuine love because she was there before another woman entered the picture and shared his struggles and lowest moments with him.
He added that this is why some men who enter polygamous marriages eventually return to their first wives whenever they need emotional comfort.
The actor illustrated his point with the story of a divorced couple whose children continued to bring them together for family gatherings. Despite being divorced for years and having grown children and grandchildren, he said the former couple still joked, laughed and appeared fond of each other whenever they met.
According to him, the bond comes from the fact that they shared their lives and difficult moments together, something he believes a second wife may struggle to replicate.
He also warned men against embracing polygamy, arguing that having multiple wives often comes with emotional and financial complications.
Awesome Chidiebere further compared women to different types of fruits, saying some men are simply too “indisciplined” and want to have every woman available to them.
He questioned how a man could comfortably provide for several wives and children when raising even one child is already expensive.
The actor concluded by advising men who desire another woman not to use polygamy as a means of creating more responsibilities and stress for themselves.
