Men who always complain about meeting materialistic women are often chasing the wrong type of women. You’re always looking for women who take from you, while ignoring those who can support and help you — Pastor
King Okonkwo
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has advised men to stop chasing women who constantly demand money, gifts and phones, urging them to seek partners who can support their growth and build a future with them.
Speaking on relationships and marriage, the pastor said some men complain that women are only interested in what they can get from them, without considering the kind of women they pursue.
“You’re always looking for girls that are taking from you. You see the ones that can support you and help you, you don’t want that one,” he said.
Okonkwo urged men to stop generalising about the opposite s+x, insisting that there are still good, godly women willing to build a life with their partners.
“Don’t join all this gender war: men are sc¥m, women are sc¥m. It’s a lie. It’s the type you are chasing,” he added.
The pastor also challenged men who delay marriage until they become wealthy, arguing that a supportive wife can help them achieve their goals faster.
“When you marry a good woman, she’s a multiplier for everything in your life. And that changed when I met and married my wife. Things that were moving slowly began to go fast,” he said.
Using a real estate business as an example, he explained that a couple could expand their professional networks and improve their chances of success by combining their connections and skills.
“All your talents are inside her, or inside him, and coming together, two are better than one. They have a great reward for their labour,” Okonkwo said, referencing the biblical principle of two working together.
